Dishevelling [verb]

Definition of Dishevelling:

mess up

I never can get them there girls of mine to dishevel themselves in time.

Rich chaplets these were, that the winds might not dishevel their comely hair, and this is true i' faith.

Men tear their garments; women dishevel their hair; all take off their ornaments, and disfigure their faces with ashes or clay.

I find it clear and very clarifying, after the innumerable hours I have spent in trying to dishevel him.